Bullied into something I dont want !

Alright you guys. Im so freaking frustrated. This is my second baby. Im a little over a month away from my due date and I don't want visitors the first day. With my first I didnt want to be crowded with visitors either but since it was our first and a first granddaughter/neice for some people I let my s/o talk me into it. And literally right after she was born people came into the room and it didn't stop from 1pm when I had her until almost 11pm that night then bright and early the next day. It was exhausting. I was so crowded.

So this time. I just want the first day. Just the first day. I've been vocal about this from the beginning. But I just got a call from my Fiancé about how his mom called him in tears pissed about a post I made about not wanting visitors the first day and that I needed to take the post down cause it was rude. and then a call from my stb MIL about how upset it made her that shes finding out over Facebook (like i said. Ive said this from like 10 weeks pregnant)

and that shes being pushed out from seeing HER grandbaby (that she understands its my kid but im being selfish and other people are excited too and others are mad about the post so i need to take the post down) I didn't take the post down but I did reword it so I didnt offend people (which frustratesme on a whole other level since im an adult and need to have my posts monitored apparently)

. she said she gets that I want the hour or two after the baby is born but the whole day is being selfish and ridiculous (keep in mind we dont know when im gonna go into labor and it most likely wont be a whole day later). It frustrates me because after we get home literally no one comes to vist.

His mom hasnt been over just to see our daughter since literally November or December. We always have to go to her house. (I could understand if she was older but shes freshly 40 and very capable. Shes on the go doing stuff out of the house all the time.) Yes we've invited her over too. Last time I made dinner for everyone and she didnt show up. 🤷‍♀️

another person who has an issue with it is his sister. Don't even get me started. With my daughter she literally saw her once at the hospital for 5 minutes and had something better to do and didnt come back to the hospital after that. Didnt see her again until about a week later.

Its his family who has issues with it. My family is all okay with my decision because its MY decision. Last time was exhausting. Idk. What should I do y'all. I just needed somewhere to vent since I can't to my s/o cause im not putting him in the middle. This is just more stress than I need right now and I really don't want the birth to be stressful too. You'd think this would be the one thing where I get to have things the way I want 🤦‍♀️

Kinda can't wait to give birth. Momma needs a drink.