What the hell goin' on?

[EXPLICIT LANGUAGE] Girl I got some teaaaaa to spill hunty... my man and I had sex a lotttt. I'm talking.... "Hey, I know your about to be in a deep sleep and its 3 am but shit.... lemme get some" type of sex. You know the kind of sex you unexpectedly have that's not planned whats so ever.

Well we have been in a relationship now for a year and 2 months and lately (for the past 2 weeks) this man is always "tired" and "not in the mood." Last night it took this man a minute to get hard and he kept getting soft. I looked at him like," I know you're not gay and my body banging... so what the hell going on?" Jokingly, I asked if he had erectile dysfunction all of a sudden and did he want to stop. He said no and got irritated. I'm like "well shit... are you not attracted to me anymore?" He said, "Of course I am. Lets just finish."

We begin and he's lazy as hell with it. No effort at all. I even stopped moaning the rest of the time and I didn't even cum. He did. I barely spoke to him afterwards. I know what you all might say though, "Maybe he's cheating..." Nah. I have his password to his phone and that was the very first thought that came to my mind. We're together every single day and there's not a day where I am not with him unless he's working. So maybe he's just really is tired or he's on some other shit. I'm always the one pointing out that I'm horny and always ask if he's in the mood. It's getting annoying as fuck, yo.

Your opinions, please. 💅 I need some good responses and no negativity. I am too grown and I will clapback👏

[UPDATE] He is still not giving me none like he used to. Im about done with the waiting. No women should have to sit and ask a man they are dealing with why they arent as intimate as before. Done trying.