I dont know what to do. I have a new friend who has a 9 month old. She has not gone to the doctor for herself since giving birth and has no motivation to because she is depressed. She had anxiety and some depression issues before getting pregnant. She loves her son, he is the light of her life, but I dont think she realizes how important SHE is and im not sure if she feels that she has any other meaning other than being Mom. Friends and family have tried to give her a break from her son so she can feel like herself again but she gets anxous when she is not with him. I just dont know what to do or how to help her.