No sex drive help (TMI)

Okay so I’m going to start off with this gets really in detail/personal..

When I was about 16 I lost my virginity. Never had problems with having sex! I would get really wet even go rounds 🤷🏾‍♀️ I ended up getting pregnant on accident.. I was simply way too young for a child, still in high school. I got an abortion and ended up getting on birth control. I’m now 19 and have been on birth control for 3 years. My sex drive had lowered sooo much is sad. All my friends talk about their sex stories and I rarely have any to share. When I would try to have sex I just don’t get wet. I am currently in a relationship with a female that I’ve been dating for a little while now but I feel so bad because she has such a high sex drive and I never wanna have sex. And when we do I don’t get wet anymore! It just sucks knowing how wet I would be & how high my sex drive was to how everything it is now. Do you guys think this could be due to my birth control or possibly the abortion. I just want to enjoy having a sexual life again.