Over bearing MIl

I need advice.. I’m 8 months pregnant with my first baby and my husband and I are so excited. We are currently staying staying with my MIL bc she is gracious enough to offer us her home to stay for a year so we can save money to buy a house, the only problem is she’s already telling me how I should raise my baby and I feel she’s over stepping her boundaries. Her family lives out of town and she goes once a month to visit her mom and she’s already said once the baby turns 8 weeks she is taking her every time she goes out of town.. which I won’t mind her going OCCASIONALLY when she’s older.. another thing is she said that the baby is going to sleep with her sometimes.. I’m very nervous after having her she will just try to take away my experience being a first time mom. She told me that when I have my baby in the hospital that I don’t need to let her sleep over night with me and send her back to the nursery bc I need all the rest I can get and I appreciate the advice but I feel she’s wanting me to raise her the way she did her kids..she told me when I go back to work every off day I HAVE to bring my baby to see her. I haven’t said anything bc she’s the type to hold things over your head, she’s spent a lot of money buying things for my Daughter even though we didn’t ask her to which I’m grateful for but anytime we do something she doesn’t like she always throws in our face how we are living in her house and how much money she’s spent on our Daughter. We don’t live in her house for free, we pay utilities and help on groceries. Idk what to do bc I don’t want to make her feel disrespected but I know there will come a point where I snap. Any suggestions?