doing things without my say.

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my boyfriend's dad took us & my 4 months old son out to a mexican restaurant and he ordered horchata (rice milk) and he asks me "have you given him anything else, has he tried horchatas" i say "no just apple purée so far bc i read thats all he's allowed to try at 4 months. other than that just breast milk" and he goes "up well now he has" and gave him some. i didnt say anything bc my bf brothers were there and most of his family saw nothing wrong w it. and i just got annoyed my boyfriend didnt say anything to his dad neither although e knows better as well. i know i could have said something but i didnt and im upset. nothing bad happened to him but it could have.