I Can’t Deal Anymore....

So my boyfriend has been playing these card games with his friends and these past few months he’s been doing it more and more every week now. At this point it’s 4 nights (and sometimes during the days) a week. I have voiced my opinion on this now at least three times, but he says that I can think what I want and that he cannot control how often he plays. Now, we had discussed in June how we should be more outgoing and embrace our individuality as well as our roles in this relationship. He agreed wholeheartedly but DAMN, at this point I feel like he spends a hell of a lot more time with his friends than out with me.

More so, to top it all off, his birthday was just yesterday. He wanted to celebrate it with dinner and then cards . I had agreed and found out after dinner that he took today off, meaning to me that he plans to get sloppy drunk. His friends slapped my butt a few times and, in shock, I said Nothing waiting for my man to say something he didn’t.

We don’t spend any time together and now when he is home he just plays his games with his friends. And now he’s letting him disrespect me...

How do I voice my opinion without making him stop this game night selfishness?

By the way, from this past Sunday to this Sunday he will have played this game 5 days this week, both of which on my days off...😢