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is it wrong to be upset at your husband for not being able to get hard??

so I ovulated today and I knew it would happen because I've been tracking with opk's.. so last night I ran my husband a nice warm bath with candles all around the tub to relax him.. then I made a huge candle lit dinner.. I gave him a full body massage with oil.. then I put whipped cream all over him and licked it off with strawberries.. basically I did the works. I purchased sexy lingerie.. there were scented candles everywhere.. I even had sexy music in the back ground.. and by the time I finished licking his entire body he still wasn't hard.. I didn't want to give him head because of the motility of his sperm and saliva would just make it worse... (if we weren't trying to conceive and if I wasn't ovulating I would have done it) so I asked if he was ready.. asked him to pull off my panties.. played with it for a while and he never got hard.. so I told him it was cool and that we didn't have to do anything but deep inside I was upset.. not only because I put so much time and effort into the night but because I feel like he's not attracted to me.. it should not be that hard to get up.. I work out so I'm not over weight.. idk.. I'm just upset and he's acting like I'm tripping over nothing and being childish.. what do y'all think?

UPDATE: I NEVER TOLD HIM I WAS OVULATING.. NEVER EVEN MENTIONED HAVING A BABY.. I DID ALL OF THAT BECAUSE WE HAVEN'T HAD SEX IN OVER TO WEEKS AND I JUST WANTED TO DO SOMETHING ROMANTIC. THAT'S JUST THE TYPE OF WOMAN I AM.

and another thing that upsets me is the jacking off.. we're not having sex because of him because I'm always down to get it in.. so why would he need to jack off? that makes me feel even worse about myself 😥.. I haven't let him know I'm upset.. I just wanted to know if maybe I was wrong for feeling the way I do.. it just sucks to feel bad about yourself or feel that you are not enough