Swallow or Spit?

I hate the negative stigma associated with oral sex. No one should be pressured into thinking that they have to swallow to get approval from society and if they don’t, they’re a failure. That is completely messed up. It is the persons decision of what they want to do, so why do people have to keeping saying things like “spitters are quitters”? This negativity makes many people not want to participate in oral because they don’t want to disappoint their partner, but they shouldn’t have to think this way. We need to change the stigma around oral sex and make people understand that it is normal not to want to swallow or not to have a man come in your mouth at all if you don’t want to.