My husband and I have been married for 1 year and he's ready to file for divorce. I love this man with all my heart and have been trying for a baby the past 5 months. Last time we were intimate was Wednesday and then Thursday he dropped it on me. It's been 4 days and he's gotten new bank accounts and told me he's done. I've suggested counseling but it against it but I'm going by myself today to talk to to our church priest. I just need advice. Should I just give him the divorce and quit fighting or give it my all until he serves me with papers. I already told him that I wouldn't sign until I've give my all.