Boyfriend Didnt give 2 FUCKS?!?!!
Ok so ladies and gentlemen. I need help with something. I need to know if I'm over-reacting or what.
So tonight I had to work. I work graveyard shift. 12am to 6am.
Well I was about to leave for work I would say around 11:30ish. I realized I couldn't fucking find my keys ANY WHERE. Idk where the fuck then went But they were not anywhere I could see.
I tried calling people to see if they could give me a ride. (People I know are usually up this late). However no one was answering.
So I finally am like ok I'm going to tell my boyfriend he has to take me. ( In a loving soft voice, not demanding him) He was sleeping because he had to go to work at 7am.
So I wake him up tell him why he has to take me to work. and so he starts looking for the keys so "slowly" like it's not urgent. He goes have you looked for them, you had then last and I'm like yes of course. I been looking for the last 20mins. So he goes to the room and I'm thinking he is going to get his wallet because his shoes are right net to me.
NOPE. He comes out with his shirt off. And in my head I'm like dude WTF. So clearly this dude don't wanna take me. Mind you we don't live that far if We are going by car. It's like 3 miles. Seriously not even a 10minute drive. So I just tell him like "dude if you don't wanna take me let me know now so I can call my boss's. He doesn't say anything. I'm just like WTF..So I really don't want to call off because I called off two days last week for family issues. VERY SERIOUS. But it's was also when my boss gave me graveyard because he knows I need it and will do the work that needs to be done and it's like once he gave it to meet I had to call of twice and now again.
So I call saying I won't be able to and I'm literally JUST so upset and shock and when I go to the room to take my shoes off he's just laying there, asleep. And I'm just like wow he really didn't give a fuck about me working.
Like idk how to explain what I mean and how I felt.
Uber
So yea I was pissed so My boss calls me ask me what's going on. I tell him why I can't make it. And of course he's saying how im fucking him over. he gave me what I wanted and now I'm not holding up my end . Which I completely understand. So he offers to get me and Uber and I say of course. ( I didn't get an Uber or Lyft before because I have no money to get one. I don't get paid til the end of this week).
So I let my boyfriend know I'm going to work and he's like half asleep asking how and I say my boss and he doesn't say anything so I'm just like. Yes, no, or do you not fucking care. Then before I walk out he's like well how are you even gonna get home. I'm like don't worry about it, you're not worried about it right now. and I just left.
So I need to know If I have the right to be pissed or not because I really am. but Idk...LET ME KNOW PLEASEEEEE

So a little update....
My boyfriend was fully up and it makes me mad because yes I missed placed my keys yet. I have a whole total of 3 years of his ALWAYS miss placing his keys and helping him find his keys at 4, 5, 6 o'clock in the morning. (I'm always the one to find them.) I don't get mad. I'm groggy asf but I help him. Because it's his work and I understand it's important. So the fact he did this to me...really surprised the hell out of me.
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