My fiancé wants a baby now?

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My fiancé wants us to have a baby but I’m scared I’m not ready to have a baby yet with him ? I love him and want to make him happy he sounds really happy about wanting to have a baby he doesn’t want me to take birth control or use condoms he’s a really good guy

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Tell him you aren’t ready. You’re the one who has to carry it. Couples should talk openly and respect each other’s feelings. Maybe be open with him on how long you’d like to wait before having a baby.

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Then you aren't going to have a baby right now...what are you confused about???

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Then don’t. Put it aside and talk about it later

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Nope. A man should never force a woman to get pregnant just like a woman should never secretly get pregnant by not taking birth control and saying you did. Having a baby is a joint decision and should be made together. If you aren't ready for a baby you need to put your foot down. Tell him no sex unless he covers up or you are on birth control. Having children is a wonderful blessing but remember most likely you will be the main one to get up with the baby when it cries every hour at night. You will be the main one bouncing the baby around for hours when they are inconsolable. Daddies help but as mothers we are the main caregivers. He needs to be patient until you are ready.

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He doesn’t sound like a good guy if he is trying to get you pregnant when you don’t want a baby yet. You aren’t even married yet, weddings and babies can cost a lot of money and take up a lot of time.

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Tell him that you are simply not ready. Let them know that you would love to give him children in the future, but at this moment, you are not ready for that. He must respect that decision, and if he doesn’t, then he’s not as good of a guy as you think he is. Stay on your birth control. Both parties need to be ready for that step in order for it to happen.

My fiancé wants a baby now?

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