Oral sex....

Been with my husband for 10 years married almost 3 and he has never been into oral. Its really starting to bother me he does it maybe once a year and im so use to not having oral sex anymore that when he does do it its weird and i cant enjoy it as id like to. I dont give him bjs anymore i feel like his selfish. I do enjoy doing it but i dont think its fair so I stopped doing it. I have spoke to him about it but nothing changed and at this point im sexually frustrated especially since i dont get off off sex alone. Any advice or anyone going though this.