So I'd heard of MIL or family members being less then kind when they hear the news but after struggling through a miscarriage last year our families knew we truly wanted a family. I would never dream that anyone would be less than excited for us and probably expect the news. We told my mother in law a few days ago and with out missing a beat she said "for real this time".... My heart sank. I felt sick. As if the child I lost was just made up in my head. As if the cramps and the pain I felt passing my child and the pain of having to be shown a blank ultrasound screen was all just a dream. Not to mention the weeks and months to follow of sadness for my husband and I. We both said nothing and got in the car and agreed it was completely insensitive. Part of my wants to tell her how hurtful it was. My mom suggests just letting it go. Sometimes I just can't believe how rude and mean people are.....and other times I can't believe I'm related to someone like that.