Irritated

He complains that his bills never get paid when they are supposed to, or that he doesn’t know how to pay them. That he’ll mail a check, instead of calling. Ect ect. I’m so irritated and passed off. Fist off he has his own direct deposit and card ( so he’s perfectly capable of paying his bills and keeping up with his spending ) but he’d rather send money to his mom so she can pay his bills

2nd he never ever allows me to see what’s in his bank or help him pay bills

3rd he works 6 days a week... I’m a SAHM who has all the time in the world to make sure all his accounts are settled and all his bills are paid but he keeps me at a distance and is still sucking moms tit.

I know I probably sound like a bitch, but how do you have a marriage with someone if they don’t let you do anything?? I’m just trying to help... and it’s like my efforts are useless 😭😔