Orgasms and TTC

Jessica 🌻 • Baby girl 5/7/16 Baby #2 due 6/10/20
I tried to do a poll but it won't let me. This may be TMI but I can't orgasm during sex. During my fertile window, which option is better or does it even matter? Most of the time, my husband likes to make me orgasm via clit stimulation before sex, but I'm worried that closes my cervix up and prevents the sperm from swimming up. Any advice?