rude or not ?

So this morning ( literally 10 minutes ago ) my bf and I ( we live together ) we were doing stuff and he started fingering me... but then he expects me to touch him and focus only on him... then once he’s done... it’s all done! see my issue ? i’m left hanging from a fingering and I have finished him... this morning wasn’t the only time either... it has happened for the past 3 days and I actually physically cried silently while doing things to him today because it really hurts my feelings and leave a bad burning feeling in my vag... any opinions? pls comment how to resolve😕