Can anyone relate?

My man is driving me crazy. He gets in these moods where he’s kind of distant and antisocial. I convince myself he doesn’t want me anymore but the second I attempt to have a talk with him about it, he expresses to me that he’s been feeling “off” not himself and blah blah blah.

Then I feel crazy for trippin on him for being in his feelings lol. Should I still have a conversation with him about how it makes ME feel? Or is that selfish? I feel like he’s being selfish too 🤷🏽‍♀️ but idk lol venting.. whatever.. I hate to be the nagging girlfriend.