Is it emotional abuse when your boyfriend tells you he doesn’t want to add you to his Facebook account as in a relationship because he doesn’t want me to make him look stupid. And that he sees us working out but at the same time saying I’m the problem in his life that just won’t go away?

(No I never cheated on him but I’ve caught him talking to other women recently and now I’m the problem and they “meant” nothing to him which I know is a lie... needless to say he’s no longer my boyfriend and I’ve told him to get his stuff and leave)