Love..?

So I'm in love with a couple of boys who have a warm filled heart. And I'm only 13 but get told that I'm "to young to date" but I love them so much (no, I'm not dating them) and I just don't know. My grandma is the one saying this, no one else cares... please help me out here on what I should do. Give the boys a shot or skip them and carry on without them