Can you have a healthy relationship and still yell at each other?

Question

I’m tired of people judging my relationship. No one is perfect. But I also see some merit in others observations. Sometimes you can’t always be objective. So.. can you have a healthy relationship and still yell at each other when you argue? How do you know your arguing in a healthy way?

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I don’t think yelling at each other is healthy. Would you yell at your coworker if you were having an argument with them? Would you yell at the woman at the check out if she stuffed up? Would you yell at your kids teachers if you were disagreeing with their approach? 
No. You wouldn’t (at least I hope you wouldn’t!). It’s disrespectful. It’s aggressive. It’s domineering. It’s completely unnecessary to get your point across. And it has been proven that when you start yelling at someone, the message doesn’t get received much, compared to talking to someone with a calm, civil tone.

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Yelling at each other is never healthy. If yelling is involved every time an argument or disagreement is present is not healthy or normal. Normal, healthy  people can have disagreements and arguments maturely and calmly without voices being raised. If yelling is even a weekly occurrence that is not healthy.

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If you don't want people's opinions/judgements don't tell people shit. Simple. 
If you have to ASK if your arguments are healthy, you pretty much know they're not 👍

Can you have a healthy relationship and still yell at each other?

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