Well, we are filing for legal separation or divorce in 5 months (when we move back to the U.S) we still need to visit legal here and get some advice on what we can expect when we get back stateside...

Anywho...

We have an 18 month old beautiful daughter, my spouse asked me for a divorce last Christmas. I feel like I’ve been crying every night since then. I’m more accepting of it, but I’m just so sad to become a single mother and to go back to work after not working the last 3 years. Don’t get me wrong I’m great with finances and used to be so independent but I didn’t have a daughter to take care of before moving overseas.

How long does it take to feel better? We’ve been married for 3 years, together for 5 years this month.

She is sometimes so mean to me, so brutal that I feel like if I didn’t have my daughter I’d kill my self right there.. (not literally). She says she’s not in love with me but she’ll always love me because we’ve known each Other so long and we have a daughter together.

She just turns into this mean person with me and its just good we are ending it now.

I’m still so In love with her & I shouldn’t be with the way she treats me. (No physical abuse, just emotional) Idk what to do, she gets mad at me for leaving the stove fan on, for not cleaning and when I’m cleaning, for everything, I wanted a hug today and she just said I don’t want you to be near me.

It’s only half a year left, and I want to feel good about co parenting but I don’t know how to feel when she doesn’t treat me nice... I understand she thinks I’m annoying, and there’s things she hates about me. She has her reasons for divorcing too much to write (no adultery)

Please send me some food for thought.

Also is there a group for co-parenting?