My bf had lunch with another girl?

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My bf has lunch with another girl after one of their ROTC (college) classes yesterday. I’m kinda upset but do i even have a right to be? Idk help me

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Not enough information to give you a direct answer.
Are they friends? What are they? Just because they went to lunch together, that doesn't mean it was a date. If he didn't tell you about then it would be cause for concern.

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Not really, it’s only lunch. Talk to him about it.

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I have male and female colleagues. I have lunches one-on-one or in groups with them all of the time. It is not a big deal at all.

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Idk, when I was in college I had lunch with people from my classes (male or female) to continue studying or if we had group projects. Or if that happened to be the only person that wasn’t in class at that time. It was usually “I’m heading to the cafeteria or X restaurant, where you are headed?” then they’d have nothing to do and come with 🤷🏻‍♀️ Husband never had an issue with it but we have a lot of trust.

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Why are you upset? Would you be upset if it were a man?

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Whether or not you should be upset depends on if it seemed like he was trying to get to know her on more than a friendly level or if they were just hungry 🤷

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No. He can have lunch with a classmate they are taking the same class and probably have similar career goals. It is so helpful to talk to other people who are doing similar things it can help you figure out where to go in your own career. It's less awkward to chat over lunch. Don't be petty.

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Yeah, no. Not appropriate in my book.

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Me and my husband dont do one on one time with the opposite sex. So it would not be okay in our relationship

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No point in overreacting or trying to control what he does, because if he wants to cheat he’s going to find a way whether you let him hangout with classmates or not. Trust him unless he gives you a reason not to.

My bf had lunch with another girl?

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