Would you let your child’s father be there for your baby’s birth if he didn’t deserve to be there ?

Please read , really need advice. Sad mom who’s expecting in a month . I know it’s a lot but someone please help me

Okay, Since I’ve been pregnant it’s been a bunch of back-and-forth with my child’s father. I managed to find an apartment for us and he’s been holding it down since June but as far as our relationship goes he doesn’t seem like it’s important. We don’t have sex at all, it’s been weeks and we barely converse.

Today I’m very upset because I got up to go handle business for my car that just broke down a few days ago and he decided to disappear on me when it was established we were going together to look at it.

I walked out the door and he was gone. I called him at once but he didn’t bother answering his phone until the almost 15th call.

Personally I shouldn’t have to keep callin you multiple xs , at that I brought him the phone for his birthday and feel hella stupid considering he really never calls me unless it’s something convenient and barely answers.

We have a child already and have been together since teens and I’m 27 now . I feel like he’s cheating , haven’t heard from him since he called me one time at 1oclock to tell me about my car that i wanted to go look at and check out . It’s almost 4, he never called back .

Doesn’t feel the need to explain why he just left other than because he can and says how he answers the phone I bought him by choice.

I’m a beautiful girl and always am told that , this man continues to take me for granted . I just don’t know what to do anymore , I’m really sad and now feel like I’m stuck and need a way out bc it’s always something daily.

I’m always sending him paragraphs expressing myself and gettin barely any feedback after all these years I built with him. He has gotten nothing for the baby and I’m due in 30 days but he will make sure he has weed.

We were just without lights for a week because he didn’t save any money towards the bill and kept putting the necessities to the side. My friends mom let us stay at her place and he tells me we’re good and gonna stay at our hot apartment with no lights and with our kid.

When I told him my friend offered us her home for a few days and insisted he stay there he claim I was d.r him. How on earth am I d.r u when I’m putting my child and unborn baby’s needs first?

I feel like shhh, but all in all I don’t want him

there for his sons birth and feel a lesson needs to be taught. Either way I feel he just doesn’t care but needs to just stop wasting my time all together