So when I got married my mom was very upset about it and essentially tried to ruin my marriage. She then gave me the option to leave my husband or face the consequences. OBVIOUSLY I was NOT going to leave my wonderful husband and father of my then newborn. So in turn, my mother burned me with the whole family. She said my husband was abusive to her and that I allowed it. Of course some family members were able to see that she was just feuding with me. While mostly others including my godmother, thought I should’ve jumped off the roof of a building had she asked me to. My godmother called and sent me SO many nasty messages. She also tried to publicly humiliate me on my Facebook. Ultimately I had to block her number, her WhatsApp and Facebook. Anyways. I’ve been presented with the opportunity to visit family on December. I’ll mostly be traveling to another country to visit my husbands family so they meet our daughter, but my family lives in that city. My intentions are to visit my only aunt and uncle that chose to still treat me like family. But I Know that if I see my godmother she’s going to kiss ass and try to pretend like nothing happened. Would you forgive and act like that too? Or should I not be a hypocrite and SHOW that I’m not over what she said? She called me from bad daughter, to bitch to asshole, to dumbass. Everything you can imagine. She also tried to tell me I was a disappointment to my grandparents and to never post any pictures or anything about them, she “forbid it” (grandmother had passed away about a month or two before, my grandpa was my heart and soul and he passed away In 2012) . She also said my godfather disliked me too.(I absolutely loved him, he was like a brother to me and we were always together when I visited; I say loved because he has refused to contact me since my mom opened her big mouth)