Can someone tell me how i should start off a conversation??

Question

So my new bf is the best thing ever but he needs some advice on sex like for real its like he is blessed but doesnt know what he is doing. How do i start that conversation nicely

Answer

While your doing things try & say what you like, not like criticizing him but like “it’s turns me on so much when you do....” or “it feels good doing...” see if he tries something different that you like?

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All guys (mostly) like to talk about sex. Id just text him and be like so can I tell you what I love in bed? Compliment things he has done right first boost his ego, make him want you, get him excited and then slowly throw out things that youd like to happen or that turn you on.  It’s super easy make it fun, make him feel good about himself so he doesn’t feel judged or like his sex is bad bc that will just throw a guy into depression (sometimes) and cause relationship problems.

Answer

Have you tried giving him some gentle direction during sex? Like “kiss me there” or “touch me like this” and guiding him through it? Sometimes the guy just has no idea what does or doesn’t feel good and if you don’t tell him while he’s doing it he won’t know any better and gentle direction during might be better received than a full blown communication.

Can someone tell me how i should start off a conversation??

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