Do you expect to get off every time you have sex with your bf/husband/SO and get mad if you didn’t?

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Having a debate with some friends. One of my girlfriends said she’d be pissed if she and her bf had sex and she didn’t get off. I’m okay with not getting off each time... I like the act itself. What do you all think?

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I mean, yes, I expect to get off every time my husband and I have sex... because we’ve always had an amazing sex life, and he knows exactly what to do to get me there fast. But if it doesn’t happen it’s normally from something out of our control, so no, I do not get mad about it.

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I’m fine with it. He is not. He wants me to finish but there are times I just don’t want to but I want to have sex. I guess it just depends on the person.  Now if my husband was a person that never cared if I was satisfied we probably wouldn’t be married.

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Sometimes it just doesn’t happen and that’s ok. 🤷‍♀️ how would they feel if their partner got pissed about them not getting off? It’s just how it works. They need to grow up TBH

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Im the same as some of the other comments. My husband usually makes me orgasm but sometimes it just doesnt happen and i just like having sex. Sometimes i feel like i cant rev myself up to orgasm. Its kind of an emotional thing for me idk but yet i really want and really love to still have sex ya know? I think if he NEVER cared about my needs then thatd be something totally different, i probably wouldnt be married to him either,

Do you expect to get off every time you have sex with your bf/husband/SO and get mad if you didn’t?

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