Should I Tell Him I Wanna See Other People?

Question

We’ve been having sex for a month and I really enjoy it. Our Physical Chemistry is amazing but he’s not meeting my emotional needs. He’s aware but hasn’t made any changes. I would like to continue our Physical relationship. BUT in the process I would like to date other men until I find someone that can give me everything I’m looking for in a relationship. He says there’s no one else and we agreed to be monogamous. I don’t plan on having sex with anyone else and when I find the right guy I’ll end things with “Mr. Physical” immediately. But I need to know if I should disclose that I’m dating other men. I don’t wanna make him jealous so I’m hesitant to mention it. We’re not in a relationship so do I have to tell him?

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Well you agreed to be monogamous so you should definitely tell him you dont think it's going to work as your needs are not being met. You cant have your cake and eat it to.

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Yes you should mention it. It's honestly the right thing to do. Also good for you because the physical relationship can only go so far. The only thing I worry about is if you keep having sex then you're basically using him because you're looking for someone else. Maybe it's time to just cut bait on that one?

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Who’s gonna wanna date you while you’re nailing another dude?

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Sounds like you just want him to be your fwb till someone new comes along. Since hes not meeting all of your needs you should go your separate ways so you both can find someone

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So you wanna be monogamous but want to date around still? It’s contradicting but if you do want to do that, you should tell the current guy so he’s not under the wrong impression. I’m sure you wouldn’t feel too good if the roles were reversed.

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Let him know ASAP! 
Before his feeling become more involved

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Building a mature emotional relationship takes time. Have you known him for more than a month? If you want to be with him, I'd identify specific ways that you could improve communication and work on those together. I've been with my husband for 6 years, and I keep learning new ways to understand each other better. It's *so* worth it if both people are willing to be patient and grow together.

Should I Tell Him I Wanna See Other People?

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