Pregnant, partners anxiety

I’m 19 & pregnant with my partner of 2.5 years. He’s always been quite distant, we made plans to hangout tonight, but he’s ditching me because he’s not in the mood due to his anxiety and depression and how nothings going his way. This makes me feel so shit, like it’s my fault for keeping the baby. And that it’s always just an excuse because he doesn’t want to hangout. I’m here for the good and bad times I just don’t feel he is I don’t know how to talk to him ahhh I feel as if he blames his anxiety and depression on everything like not having a job. I understand how bad it can get, I suffer too but honestly I feel like he doesn’t try. Especially now we’ve made a commitment to having a baby