Will you do it with me??

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So my husband and I we trying for a baby for about a month... but then AF showed up 🙁. I took that as a sign to wait on baby and focus on the body that my baby will be living in for nine months. So my husband and I have stopped trying and are now focused on making us better for our future child and our current one. Is there anyone out there that would like to “follow” each other and help support one another?? If so let me know!! (Just comment your name so I know who you are!!) I’m 30, 5 foot 6 inches and 194 lbs. looking to be at 150!! Let’s do this!!

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Just a heads up, it can take a normal healthy couple a year of ttc before getting pregnant, without it being anything medically wrong. Of course a healthy weight and lifestyle can help, but just trying for a month is extremely short.

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It took me about 4 months before I conceived. And I had this same mind set after a month , that we should just stop trying, but when we went to a doctor, he did tell me and my husband it could take us longer then a year before we conceive so we had kept trying. I hope you guys keep trying and enjoy the process instead of assuming the worst like I did. But it’s never wrong to try and want to improve yourself for your future family before they are here.

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It took me over 6 months to get pregnant with my second baby

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1 month isn’t long at all. You shouldn’t have given up after 1 month...

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lol one month is really not long. you dont need to worry unless it's been over a year. I got pregnant on the first try but I'm only 20 and we got the timing right, plus he had just come home from being away for a while (army) lol so maybe things were just potent 😂 dont give up yet though 1 month is nothing! plus you could have had your ovulation days wrong. keep trying!

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To everyone: I don’t think you understand. I’m no giving up on having a baby and I definitely did not expect to get pregnant in a month, our first it took almost a year. But what I am trying to do is be smart and think of the baby that will be living in me for nine months and be healthier than I am now. I wanted to create a support group of strong women that can help me get through this phase and into the next (ttc) and maybe help a them too. I know this journey won’t happen over night, I’m not oblivious to that. I just wanted help.

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Clearly no one read your post in its entirety. Or they just read what they wanted to read and ignored the whole point. As soon as you said one month ttc you had a target on your head. 
You can certainly feel good, get active and get healthy while trying to conceive! You and hubby! I went to the gym every day, and changed my diet and habits while TTC. And then let nature run its course. Good luck to you mama! I’d join you but I’m due next month lol

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I cut out red meat and lowered my fat intake and it's helped a lot. I'm down 10 lbs

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