my boyfriend and i have a very strong relationship . we have been together for a while, we live together, and we also have our first pet together . i don’t have a passcode on my phone and he can go on it whenever he wants , and my thumbprint is in his phone . we have never shopped through each other phone cause we trust each other very much . although , yesterday i was trying to find my phone so i went on his phone so i could call mine . as soon as i open his phone it’s already opened to his photo gallery where he has DOZENS of videos and pictures of women, naked or with barely any clothes on . i’m feeling uncomfortable and a loss of self image . is this just me ? i feel as though it shouldn’t matter because i know he watches porn and that does not bother me one bit . but why does having him save naked videos of girls make me feel uncomfortable ?