ex's!!

oh wow guys.. my daughter dad hasn't seen her for a whole year even when he did he used to see her birthday an christmas pretty pathetic if u ask me he wud only spend an hour with her anyway today he's claiming he wants to be in his daughters life... she has a little brother she's never met by him and his girlfriend he's nearly 1 now ive begged him to have contact over the years and he always says he was to busy with work he dosnt pay child support ive never askd him for anything just to be in his child's life.. anyway i give up asking my girl dosnt want to see him i mean she's 11 she has her own mind right? question is do i be blunt and say it's to late or just ignore the convo block an delete? she has my boyfriend ov 6years who has looked after her like he's own been to all her Christmas presentations in school latest one was her levers assembly both me an him was cryin with how proud we are of her, she dosnt call him dad or anything because she knows he's not her real dad but he supports her like a father should x