TTC with epilepsy

Hello Ladies. I’ve had epilepsy since I was 14 and am now 28. We are wanting to conceive “naturally” but I am scared of the side affects that it could have on me or the baby. I take lemictal and keppra.

If you’ve ever seen Steel Magnolias, that’s literally how I picture my life going.

Advice? Comfort? How did you conceive?