Is he using me ?

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So I’ve been with this guy for two years, I’m 17 and he’s 19 Met when I was 15 and him 18 .

He’s now in college and I’m a senior in high school . Even time he would ask for help or if he needed money he would ask me and I would ask why and would help me .

Well lately I’ve been saving up to buy another car and I told him I wouldn’t be able to give him anymore money at all no matter what . So a week later he starts saying on how he hasn’t ate & etc and kept bothering me about it saying on how he not asking me but would ask me at the same time and I said no so last Friday I told him to stop asking me because I am not going to give him any more money . That I’m done with that .

So he started to say how nobody fw him and how nobody got him and that once he was on his feet that he was going to go ghost on everybody so I asked if he was going to go ghost on me too just cause I didn’t help him this one time and he said “ you’ll see once I go ghost on you “ soo I broke up with him saying and basically told him I wasn’t going to waste my time with someone who didn’t see a future with me anymore . So on Monday he calls me telling me his grandma died ( his grandma told him that he should marry me because I was the only one who supported and helped him though out the years and even gave him her ring ) and he had the audacity to ask me for money to put his initials in the gravestone . After I told him no many times and explained so many times that I can’t send money .

So I’m asking y’all, do you think he’s just using me for money ?