Promise ring

Carolina

Okay so I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 3 years now and I really do love him like I want to spend the rest of my life with him and so one of his friends was helping me pick a gift for our anniversary and he has a big mouth unfortunately and told me he’s gonna get me a promise ring, it made me so happy but upset because he ruined the surprise but since he’s getting me one, should I get one for him? Our date is on the 28 of September so it’s coming up soon 😰 like can girls give their man a promise ring? Now that I know it’s mutual I’m freaking out, he’s into jewelry so if not then should I get him a chain or gold bracelet? This anniversary is very special to us I NEED HELP GUYS