My dad is something else. He can be cheerful and lovable at one moment and hot tempered and verbally abusive.

I was sitting quietly in my bedroom writing music, watching a stranger fix our household wifi, and here comes my dad screaming "M/N!! WHY ISN'T THE FUCKING RECYCLING SHIT NEAR THE TRASH THROWN OUT?!" Let me say he never takes out the recycling bin items and I'm here the only one in the evening that takes them out. So I'm washing dishes and still goes on about "YOU'RE 19 NOT 1 YEARS OLD HECK EVEN A ONE YEAR OLD DOES BETTER THEN YOU!!" I'm the one that goes buy groceries, pick up medication for my parents, buy them vitamins, get them things they need on a daily, rarely have time to myself, I always pay the bills and I work part-time security in the night, earn an impressive scholarship for MY sake, I don't have enough to move out and my dad said "Don't talk to me ever again if you move out after you become a paramedic"

So I reflected my father treated me like a princess all my life but now since he barely make money anymore he's been like this and it's getting on my nerves. People tell me I'm the most responsible but childish person they meet but my dad thinks one mistake and you're automatically stupid. My dad tell me all the things I do rather then doing other task he assigned me are "excuses" or "I'm wasting time". My mother said don't worry about it but it makes me grit my teeth that I'm taking care of my parents and my dad have the audacity to call me a helpless "One year old"

Update: My father is laughing and being lovable again I'm super convinced that he display traits of bipolar disorder.

A friend told me I should move out when I finish paramedic school should I?