Upset at baby shower

So I’m trying to be thankful for what little I did get at my shower but I still can’t help to be upset. A lot of friends that said they would come didn’t show up. I’m always there for people at their events but yet when it comes to mine people could careless. When I had my bridal shower years ago people never looked at my registry and ended up giving me useless crap. The same thing happened today. Now I’m freaking out because baby will be here soon and we are not prepared. My husband and I hit a financial hardship over the summer and we can barely afford to live in our house. Has anybody been through a similar situation?

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