Keeping it spicy in the bedroom

Courtney

How do you ladies keep things spicy in the bedroom while ttc. It is starting to just feel like a transaction and not fun anymore! He also says he is afraid to even have sex because he doesn’t want me to go though the pain of another miscarriage because the 2 that I have had were so rough on me mentally/emotionally even though I tell him I am fine now he is still afraid and it doesn’t feel intimate like it used to. Help!!