Why is it wrong to enjoy your pregnancy?

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Not sure if I am the only one feeling like this but when I get asked how I feel and I say I’m fine or good and loving my pregnancy, there is alway a remark. I am constantly told oh just wait, I’m sure you’re tired, I’m sure you’re feeling the pain, or it looks like you’re uncomfortable already. Why can I not enjoy my uncomfortableness or my aches? It is my last pregnancy and I am enjoying every little moment, every little pain and ache. Yes, I might be uncomfortable at times but I am embracing it.

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Miserable negative people will never know what it’s like to really enjoy something. Enjoy it, celebrate it! Tell them they can go fuck themselves too 😂😂😂😂

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Yesss! Someone said to me “it must be so nice to be having such an easy pregnancy.” I bit my tongue lol... it hasn’t been easy by any means, I’m just not really a complainer and aches/pains come with pregnancy lol- I don’t know what people expect.

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It's just out of the norm. People are used to us complaining. 
Plus, if someone was miserable for their pregnancy, they want validation for how they felt, not someone saying they love it!
Has nothing to do with you, I don't think. Just shrug it off and walk away. 🤷

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Yup. I’m actually having a great pregnancy. I had terrible morning sickness, cramps and several scares with my first so this one I’m enjoying a lot with none of that. People will say, “wait till you’re in the 3rd trimester.” It’s like...first of all this isn’t my first baby, I know how pregnancy progresses. Second, I’m 28 weeks! I am in the 3rd trimester!

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I’m having that “perfect pregnancy” and people do that to me too, like ‘oh just wait’. 30 weeks and still nothing crazy to make me really feel like I can understand what all these other women are going thru. Kinda sucks honestly cause everyone else around me seems to have very problematic pregnancies with complication and it makes me worry for my own (I.e. pre e, too much fluid, pre term birth, etc). 
 I’m talking no cravings, not emotional. I actually laugh more now than ever. Like I got the giggles instead of the tears. My acne actually cleared up didn’t get worse. No swelling even after international travel. Sometimes a sore back after working all day. Not too tired. Belly has stayed small so far and my weight gain is right where it should be. Blood pressure is healthy. Like idk. I’m just weird I guess.

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I usually say something along the lines of l ‘I’m feeling good, just tired’. Gives them a little info so then they don’t usually dig deeper or give any remarks. After saying that I usually get a ‘well you look great!’

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I was telling my husband just yesterday, I know people mean well but I’m over everyone asking me how I’m feeling. It’s the first thing they say which is nice but also I’m cranky lol I’m feeling fine leave me alone

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Thank you ladies! Glad to see I’m not the only one who gets annoyed when people try to rain on your parade.

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I’m jealous. I’m hating every second of this pregnancy 😩 my first wasn’t too bad, I had some issues but overall it was fine. But this one is from hell. 
Go enjoy your pregnancy and tell those people to get bent.

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That’s how I feel when I say I hate pregnancy. People always comment saying how amazing it is. Doesn’t matter what you say or what your opinion is someone is going to have something negative to say about it

Why is it wrong to enjoy your pregnancy?

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