We have been trying to get pregnant for almost 2 years now. I have a normal 28-35 day cycle every month my whole life. The doctors all look at me like I'm a joke because I'm obese. They all say I need to loose 100 pounds by weight loss surgery in order to have a baby. Most I got out of them is an internal ultrasound and all of that was perfect. I'm at a loss. I started vitex this cycle. Hoping it may help in some way. A little lost on how to proceed if I dont get pregnant by April. I did tell them to go ahead and refer me to bariatrics, but I'd really like to be pregnant sooner than the process of surgery would take... My husband is on the older side [37] and I'm younger [23]. We have stable income, a car, and own our own home. We just want a baby.. Still hopeful and praying everyday. Just to add: I have tried diet and exercise on my own and it just doesnt work, I gain even more :(