Married women

Question for anyone on here who is married. Do any of you regret who you chose to be in your bridal party after the wedding?? And did you feel obligated to have someone stand up for you if you were in theirs?

I have a “friend” who I used to be close with. I was her maid of honor 4 years ago. Had no problem doing it. But now we don’t really talk and if we do she’s very judgmental. I will be getting engaged very soon and I don’t want her in my wedding. Is that wrong? I’m also curious if she regrets putting me in hers since we don’t talk any more. (The only other two standing up were her family). What do you think?