It’s been two months since I gave birth to my second child and I had a fast recovery. No complications whatsoever, but up till this day I’ve been having on and off spotting. Yeah, I’m one of those unlucky one; POOR ME :(

Anyways, ever since my delivery I’ve lost interest in sex. Idk if I’m just tired or if I’m busy. But honestly, I haven’t been feeling like wanting to be intimate with my bf. Is it normal? He’s been very patient with me before but now he keeps bugging me if I’m done bleeding or if I’m ready to have sex again. He’s been trying to seduce me and when he does, I don’t feel it. He even tries to hint me out that he’s horny by watching porn, or he rubs his dick in front of me while I do some paper work. His sex drive has increased dramatically and it’s hard for me. I feel bad because he’s been wanting to do it with me for a long time. I do pleasure him when he’s horny, but he’s over it. Him always bugging me to do it is getting annoying. I love him but I’m always tired, I have to take care of the kids 24/7. I got chores to finish, dinner to prepare. I’m still spotting and we would never have sex if blood is present. When he wants to be intimate, he mostly does it at a wrong time: when the kids are about to wake from their nap, when I’m tired and have no energy, etc. Honestly I’m not sure what to do!