So I’ve been seeing a lot of posts in this group about men cheating on their wives/SO’s while they’re pregnant and I find it super weird that it seems more common that a man would cheat during this time.

I decided to ask my SO if he felt the desire to be with other women more while I’m pregnant. After telling him it wasn’t a trap and I was genuinely curious he told me that now he looks at women way more than he did before and thinks about women in more sexual ways than he did before. He also said that while he finds me more beautiful than ever and would never cheat on me, there’s a disconnect in his brain telling him that “his work here is done” basically.

I trust this man 100%. He’s always open and honest with me and honestly we are always together so I don’t even know how he would cheat. And I asked the question so I should have been prepared for the answer.

But regardless, my feelings are hurt lol. I had to act like I needed to take a bath (at 11:30 am after my hair and makeup was already done 😂) so I could cry. I’m not sure why I’m so upset. I know finding other women attractive is normal and I’m sure it’s only natural that because we went from sex at least once a day to maybe once or twice per week that he would need to get that fix hormonally somehow. If I look at it critically I know it’s silly to be so sad but I still am.

Help me get over this!