So first I do love him a lot but truly cannot stand the disconnect anymore. I am in an extreme competitive grad school program. My bf is interning for 30 hours a week at a very low stress place. He has no classes, no family drama and can straight up say he is bored. I am up at 5:30 everyday and working until midnight. I can’t stand him telling me how tired he is I am exhausted im not complaining. I can’t stand him telling me how stressed he is.... over the baseball game that’s on tonight. I can’t stand him telling me how hungry he is when I don’t get enough of a break to eat lunch. I have told him how much it upsets me and annoys me especially him complaining how stesssed he is about trivial things. I have ten million things going on and have some family things also going on. He knows all of this and is acting like his life is so difficult. I have tried to explain to him how it is for me and to help him be more mindful and he still does it. Can anyone relate? I just don’t think he has a right to complain to me since I’m not complaining to him. Truly if he had a valid argument for being stresssed after a rough day I would listen but from what he tells me and how he acts it’s not that type of environment