why do people enjoy body shaming

i’m 15, 5’9 and believe when i say i can not gain weight... so obviously i’m quite skinny and tall. some days i’m insecure but other days i feel confident. why the hell is it every time i feel confident i get torn down?? this one kid in my high school calls me giraffe cause i’m taller than the other girls and not gonna lie that word to a tall girl can hurt them. yesterday on the bus back home i felt so happy and they were messing around on tinder and he showed everyone this picture of a girl and said “wow this girls got less of an ass than

reilly!” and another kid said “she’s like 1,5. flatter than a piece of wood too” (1,5 he meant 1 inch of wood long and 5 high) and damn i didn’t stop thinking about it. everywhere i go people have to be “wow you’re so skinny” or “wow you’re so tall”. last time someone called me tall someone else replied “don’t say that it’s such an insult”. is this really the society of tall, lean people? i have tall parents not to help i’m serbian. i NEVER shame people cause you never know if they just brush it off and say whatever or if they’re already insecure, or self harming themselves.

but guess what? they talk about gigi hadid and kendal jenner i’m sexual ways all of the time. so basically it’s ok to do it to me cause they find me venerable but they talk all nice about 5’10, skinny super models?? where the logic in that!!

please people, if you don’t have anything nice, or positive to say, especially if it’s about someone’s physical look, don’t say it.