Are you having a lot of sex ?

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My DH these last 3 months never wants to make love!! I try and I try and I get shut down .. It happens like once every 3 weeks!!! This is horrible .. I'm dying .. Is anyone else experiencing this? What's even more annoying is he'll say .. I don't get why we're not pregnant yet and in like hello!?!?! Because we never make love .. And all he says Is ya we do if it's meant to be it'll happen... Please she'd some advice !! I need help I'm not happy :(

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Same thing!!! we are never in the mood at the same time and it's sooooooooooooooooooooooo frustrating, especially when he gets sad that AF started. I laid out a plan for this month, so hopefully that doesn't make it worse but it's worth a try

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Not sure how much you're sharing with the dh but Maybe try not to have  the TTC convo with him ? I find with my dh .. If I don't tell him about my fertile days or when to have sex and just make it spontaneous (even though I know it's my fertile days) it works a lot better. Otherwise it becomes a chore. Good luck !!

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you really need to talk to him about how it's making you feel.

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We've gone through this. I had to explain there are certain days of the month we NEED to BD to have a chance. He has performance anxiety, so having sex is pretty much when he wants to b/c if I bring it up, he wants nothing to do w/ me

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I'm in the same boat. I get about 1 chance a week if I am lucky...I get a lot of the "I'm tired" or "I'm sore" and nothing ever goes down. I have to pester him until he gives in the he realizes I will leave him alone for a bit. It's frustrating. They don't understand when we want to try having a baby, you have to actually try and not shit us down...best of luck!!

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I am in the same predicament he just acts like I'm invisible when I bring it up but then says he wants a baby but never wants to make love we make love a couple times a month. so good luck to you

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I feel the same way. It's hard cause we have different schedules and so sometimes the important times to have sex are not the most convenient and I feel like I'm pressuring him all the time.

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My DH can't go past 3 days without making love, let alone talking about 3 wks, it's always me that's lazy sometime but lately since I've been ttc, I've been hotter than a fire cracker!!!

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Ladies .. It's so frustrating ... Thank you for all the comments .. I don't talk about babies anymore or when to BD or anything .. It's to the point I just miss making love it use to be 4 times a week now it's once a month ... I've cried to him and he just always comes up with something ... I really don't know what to do or what it means bra use he kisses me , cuddles says he misses me all day when we work .. Everything is normal but this .. IM SO CONFUSED ?

Are you having a lot of sex ?

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