ADVICE NEEDED: moles ?

i need advice asap !

ever since i was born i’ve had a mole on the top of my right bum cheek and it’s progressively gotten larger over the years. my dad offered to pay for lazer surgery for me to get it removed, as when people used to see it at school when i bent over and a bit of it would show the kids would make fun of me. i got to about 10 years old and i began to not care so much. i was actually confident enough to look at it with the attitude of ‘hey, i’m unique, it’s a part of me that i shouldn’t have to get rid of’ which was really courageous now i look back on it.

however, now i’m approaching my late teens 15-17 and i’ve come across some problems. i’m afraid of what other people will think of it and when it comes to sending nudes or even just wearing a cheeky bikini, i get really insecure and worry if people will find it really unattractive and off-putting.

also, i’m wondering if i should get it checked out at my GP. it’s about the size of a nectarine or a large easy peel orange and i think that’s abnormally big.

please let me know what you think !