is this just my guy?

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Anyone's SO, baby daddy, boyfriend etc been extra moody or distant? 
He says he is stressed with work but I've noticed he's been making more comments about what I should or shouldn't be doing/eating. Not as cuddly or talkative as before. He still has his moments where he'll lovingly talk to baby through my belly or comments that he likes the way my body is changing. Just most the time he seems distant, stressed, annoyed.

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My boyfriend has been the same it's so bad to the point that I'm stressed out and contemplating leaving him cause I honestly think there's someone else 😢😢😢💔

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I can’t tell if it’s because he’s distancing himself or just because of circumstance, but my SO has been spending a lot less time with me. We don’t get a lot of hang out time together and it seems like every weekend he’s got plans with the guys. He’s doing fantasy football too and every day he is staring at his phone so much to keep track of his scores. He’s also playing twice as much soccer as before because he started subbing for his friend’s team. I feel a little lonely at times. 😞 But I don’t wanna deprive him of what he enjoys just because I’m getting less attention. It just makes it harder being pregnant! Ugh.

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Sounds overwhelmed. Doesn't mean he doesn't love you though. Sounds like he is trying to connect still. Maybe has his own history or how he saw his dad or is putting ALOT of pressure on himself for how he should be. I'd talk about it. Sometimes hanging out with other dad's is helpful too.

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Pregnancy is a big change. It kinda hits them hard when they see you growing and changing before their eyes. My husband loves it. Were both really enthusiastic about being pregnant and babies though. But for a bit after our first son was born he got really jealous and was alot like this. They just have to learn to adapt each time.

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My husband is the same. This is our second baby and he's been the same both times. For him, it's just temporary and he eventually gets over it. This one has been a little worse than the first, but we tried for two years with our daughter, but this time was a surprise after one night of unprotected fun. He says he is happy and loves our baby, but he's so scared and stressed because we are in a rough spot financially with the other health problems that I have, but he's still happy underneath all the distance and grumpiness.

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