Little back story: My husband and I tried for 10 years to have a baby before our sweet girl was born. I had a miscarriage 3 months prior to getting pregnant with her. I had a great pregnancy and delivery but baby girl spent a month in NICU and was 6 weeks early. I had PPD but sought help and am much better now. She will be 3 years old next month.

My husband and I do not use any form of protection. Anytime I bring up having another baby, he says things like 'oh, lord we dont need anymore.' Or 'are you kidding, one is enough.' And when I bring up that we aren't preventing another pregnancy. He says 'yeah, I know.'

So, I feel like if he was serious about not having another baby, he would be more adamant about doing things to stop it. Would it be wrong to get pregnant if he feels this way. I mean, at this point if it happens, it happens. But would I be wrong for starting to track ovulation and sort of 'try' to have another one? I dont want him to be upset or resent the baby if I ended up pregnant but with not doing anything to prevenr it, its just a matter of time before it happens.