I know it sounds bad but it’s true. I need to vent!
So my husbands dad is not a great guy... at all really. His main focus is, always has been, and always will be money. He doesn’t care about anything else. He has 4 kids total. The last one he had when he was still married to my MIL with another woman so she is a love child. He sends her money but that’s it. I’ve been with my husband for 4 years and he hasn’t even spoken with her in those 4 years. Just her mom calling for more money. Well he’s 53 his wife is only 34. When my husband and his siblings that he grew up with were all younger their dad was hardly in the picture. Even left there mom to take a taxi home from the hospital after giving birth. So he could go make more money or cheat on her again. His wife now wants a kid and all his kids now say they will disown him if he does. His wife is a gold digging bitch that literally no one in their family can stand to be around. She’s always been a bitch to me but since I got pregnant she’s been a mega bitch. She wants kids which I completely understand but she shouldn’t have married my FIL if she wanted them that bad. They tried AI one time and it failed and they said she couldn’t have kids which everyone thought was great. Including my FIL. Well my husband seems to think they might be trying to get pregnant again. Worst idea ever!!!! If it’s to happen I will not treat the child any different than any other child. I do not want it to feel unwanted but in reality it is unwanted. He already has kids he has nothing to do with. His oldest daughter lives 15 minutes away and he has nothing to do with her or her kids because they don’t help him make money. The only reason he has anything to do with my husband is because he opened a company and they help each other. My other SIL works in their office with me so that’s the only reason he is in her life. But still treats all his kids bad and talks down to them. He does not need anymore kids especially with the mega bitch that is going to raise a good for thing child that thinks it’s entitled to anything and everything. This lady will intentionally go out of her way to talk shit on my husband and his siblings and make them look like they are fucking up in his dads eyes and he even said he has caught her doing it yet he still lets her do it. Because of her shit their dad has gone months without talking to any of them.
Thanks for reading if you made it all the way through.
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